Femdom- FinDom- and Sacrifice

Some femdoms and findoms hate men.

Twitter is flooded with thousands of women and findoms who are "19" saying "Ew fuck men, so gross, "you're just a talking wallet!" Give Me money! #findom #findombrat #finsub"

I'm just going to clarify...

There are different psychologies to findom, Men who enjoy spoiling a woman. Men who love being humiliated while consensually being taken advantage of. Men who just enjoy the thought of bettering a woman's life by investing Her, as she invests time and energy into bettering his life while living out some kinks or a D/s Dynamic. Men who enjoy every aspect of their finances controlled and budgeted out for them, while they get an allowance. Some Dominatrices who are finance savvy, even dictate where a their fin-slave will invest their money, and how much of it will be invested.

I just simply see My time as money, energy, and a valuable resource. If I'm not talking to a paying sub, I'm studying, creating, reading, painting, working on projects. You're paying for Me to take time out of My life to focus on you. When tributed money, I see sacrifice. It took real time, energy, effort, to earn that money which could have bettered your life, but you chose to give to Me to better Mine. Example: I gave My sister a half of a business I built Myself. Money is a love language.

As a Dominatrix, I take time to invest in My submissive. I take their kinks into consideration, as well as what direction they hope to grow in, and often times depending on the extent of My relationship with My sub, I play the role of a life coach, and personal trainer. Sometimes I wing sessions, sometimes I plan them out over weeks, extensively. Either way, I am taking their interests, what makes them tick-and-tock, how to mentally, emotionally, and physically put them on a roller-coaster, pulling their strings like a marionette puppet, creating unforgettable, oftentimes limit pushing experiences. I also spend time and energy focused on their growth and development because, I have an inherent nature of seeing human potential, and want to see My sub self actualize their own capabilities and capacity for happiness and self mastery, yes, even when taking their money.

If you have nothing to offer Me but your ass on a silver platter for Me to pound away and penetrate... and your mouth to kiss My ass, Yes, I love it...but also, Get in Line! Note: That is a very long line, so I won't waste My time. So, technically you don't have anything to offer, hence you tribute for My time.

Sacrificing your ass is a good time, but not of value or true sacrifice in My opinion. I live by, telling Me you worship Me isn't enough. Show Me you want to serve Me like the Goddess I am. I'm your psycho-sexual mentor, and a T-rex sexual predator when it comes to My desires and kinks. (My vision is poor and I'm all legs. Jk. )